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You Don’t Have to Earn What’s Already Yours: Salvation is a Gift...But You Do Have To Accept It.

Sep 30, 2025

You Don’t Have to Earn What’s Already Yours: Salvation is a Gift

Let me guess.

You know in your head that salvation is by grace. You've heard it in sermons, Bible studies, podcasts, and probably even on a coffee mug or two. But if you're anything like most women I walk with, there's still this tiny internal voice that says:

“Sure, God saved me. But now I have to prove I was worth saving.”

Sound familiar?

Yeah. Me too.

So let’s take a deep breath and go back to the beginning — to the heart of the gospel. Because somewhere between to-do lists, group texts, and wondering what’s for dinner (again), we can start to treat grace like it came with a price tag. And that’s not the gospel.

 Grace Doesn’t Have a Payment Plan

Let’s be clear: salvation is a gift. Full stop.
Not a rewards system. Not a performance review. Not a trophy for being the “good Christian girl.”

📖 “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” — Ephesians 2:8–9 (ESV)

If you’ve ever felt like you had to work your way back into God’s good graces because you skipped quiet time three days in a row, or snapped at your husband, or yelled at your kids, or struggled to believe — welcome to being human. But also — that’s not how salvation works.

Jesus didn’t come to offer us a salvation starter kit and say, “Okay, now don’t mess it up.”
He came to finish what we couldn’t even begin.

 The Cross Was Enough. Period.

When Jesus hung on the cross and said, “It is finished,” He wasn’t kidding.

📖 “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — Romans 5:8 (ESV)

He didn’t wait for us to get our act together. He didn’t wait for us to be less moody, more disciplined, more Pinterest-worthy. He came while we were still sinners, and pursued us when we didn't want him — while we were still broken, distracted, overwhelmed, and unsure. That’s the kind of love that changes everything.

Salvation isn’t a reward for the worthy. It’s rescue for the desperate, helpless, and contrite.

 Faith Is the Door, Not the Ladder

We don’t climb our way to salvation. We enter in by faith.

📖 “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” — Romans 10:9 (ESV)

That’s it. No secret handshake. No spiritual résumé. Just faith in Jesus — who He is, what He did, and what that means for us.

And if you’ve already done that? Then you’re saved. Not “sort of” saved. Not “conditionally” saved. You are held, sealed, and secure.

📖 “Whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.” — John 5:24 (ESV)

 So... Now What?

Once we really get that salvation is a gift — not a wage — it frees us to live differently. Not to earn God’s approval, but because we already have it.

We don’t read our Bibles to check a box.
We don’t serve in church to earn points.
We don’t strive to “look spiritual” to impress anyone — including God (this one stings a little for me).

We live in response to love. We repent because we want a different life. We obey because we’re loved. We walk closely with Jesus because He saved us, not because we’re trying to keep ourselves saved, as if we could.

 If You’re Still Wrestling... You’re Not Alone

Maybe you’ve been walking with Jesus for decades, and you still feel the tug to perform. Maybe grace sounds too good to be true. Maybe you’re exhausted by a faith that feels more like a treadmill than a path.

Friend, you’re not crazy. But you might be carrying a burden Jesus already took off your shoulders.

📖 “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 (ESV)

Real rest doesn’t come from finally doing enough. It comes from knowing Jesus already did everything.

 Final Word (And It's a Good One)

You don’t have to prove yourself to a God who already proved His love on the cross.

You are saved by grace.
You are held by mercy.
You are loved by a God who doesn’t take His gifts back.

So take a deep breath. You can stop striving.

Jesus didn’t just save you — He’s still saving you.

 Ready to Go Deeper?

If this stirred something in your heart, maybe it's time to explore this truth more intentionally. I’ve got mentorship options and self-paced courses that help you grow your faith without the pressure to perform. You can check those out here.

But even if you don’t — my hope is that you walk away from this knowing: You are saved. And it’s a gift. And it’s yours.

All you have to do is accept it.

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